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Of course my parents love each other very much and would not choose another spouse, which is why her response caught me off guard.
If you are a believer and are willing to go, then well and good. If you are an atheist or a non-believer, then let your date know, and politely decline the invitation.
Mine was in California, back in the 70s. I have no idea if he stayed.
Good communication, love, support and understanding are the things you should consider. Some of my family approves of my marriage and some does not.