Reconciling this with the doctrine of temple marriage is trickier. But God works in mysterious ways.
The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church.
I thought she would grow out of it. I don't remember much of the breakup because it's been overshadowed by what happened to her afterwards.
I wanted so badly to marry a guy who had recently left the church. Of course my parents love each other very much and would not choose another spouse, which is why her response caught me off guard.
I was in your same position years ago. I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed.
You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. If she is still Leilanileixxx and you are not, she will always secretly hope that you convert, just like you will always secretly hope she leaves the church.